Do you ever feel that it is not okay to feel happy here because you want to be there? And you feel that there is the better place to be...the place where you will reward yourself with happiness.
Do you think if you reward yourself with happiness here then maybe you will lose the determination to pursue there and ultimately there is where you want to be?
So do we use happiness as a reward? Do we hold off on happiness so that we will work harder to achieve something and when it is acheived then we can be rewarded with happiness?
We will always have a there. The belief is that once you get there you will be happy. But once you are there it turns out to be here and then you will create another there.